Posts tagged ‘Dakota’

July 8, 2012

A Country Walk

When Jim and I are in CT, we love to take long walks. Most often Dakota accompanies us on our walks. He’ll walk along grinning like a fool. He loves walking along with us when we’re talking. He feels like one of the gang. Sometimes we leave him home. While I love taking Dakota with us, he does tend to dawdle and sniff and sometimes he tries to sit down because his feet get tired. When we walk without him, we can move faster.

One of our favorite walks is up Grantville Road. The short walk is up Grantville to the White House No One Lives In. The long walk is to the end of the road. The long walk is about 4.5 miles round trip, but it features a killer hill. The short walk takes about 45 minutes and the long walk closer to 90.This is the beginning of the walk. Our neighbors, Jim and Sandi, are right next door. We’ve been neighbors for 29 years. Once past Jim and Sandi’s, we quickly hit a hill which is a bit tough when you’re just getting going.

Jim really hates that hill. It is deceptive looking. It is goes on for quite a while.

While we live in a rural area, there is some multi-family housing. Above you see an example of a local condominium. Look closely up high and you will see there are many tenants. We can hear them pecking as we walk along.

We call this the Gifford’s House. The Giffords haven’t lived there for at least fifteen or twenty years, but they used to. It is a very attractive farmhouse. The addition went on after the Giffords sold it. After the Giffords a couple lived there. The woman died about 18 months ago and in the last few months some new people moved in. We haven’t met them yet other than to wave as we walk past.

I am not sharing every house we pass, just the ones we really like.

This house we think of as the Webster’s. I believe Mr. Webster was a Judge. He passed away quite some time ago and now his granddaughter has the house with her family. They are exceptionally nice and have a large garden. They also put in a pool. I think it is the only pool in the area I can think of. It doesn’t really get warm enough to need to swim that often and there are lots of ponds and lakes around just perfect for swimming.

The Webster’s house is also obviously quite old. In front of it stands a hitching post. There is lots of stone around, walls of stone, slabs of stone protecting mailboxes. There is just plenty of stone. At the beginning of the 21st century twice as much land was farmed as it is now in this area. There are lots of full grown forests with stone walls made hundreds of years ago through back-breaking labor as a farmer cleared a field for planting.

A perfect example of both the stone walls and the size of the boulders. Lucky that boulder was on the outside of the fence because nothing was going to move it. These are all souvenirs of glaciers long ago. They carved hills and lakes and dropped much debris as they went. These stone walls are all dry walls–as opposed to walls held together with mortar.

Walking up the road, the sun breaks through the trees. Every time of day has its own show of light and shadows. Sometimes the light slants through the trees, sometimes it seems almost dark in the middle of the day. It is always cool and comfortable walking up the tree-lined parts of the road.

This house, which is quite hard to see, has no one living in it. It belongs to a family who own quite a bit of land up here, but they had a falling out. This house’s owner hasn’t been here in twenty years. It is in worse and worse condition. It sits on a gorgeous piece of property which will one day be sold as part of the woman’s estate. For years, I coveted the property. It has a gorgeous sweeping field and beautiful stone walls. But I finally realized that our property is cozier and our pond more beautiful. I still love to peer at the house as we walk past and wonder what will happen to it.

After the White House No One Lives In comes a giant hill. Heading down the hill isn’t too bad, but the way back up is a killer. The hill goes on forever and at the bottom is Dale Marchione’s place. Dale is an artist and grew up on this farm. They still have sheep and chickens. Dale has a rustic studio in which he displays his art. It is bright and colorful and I very much like it. Dale and his partner, Ben, live in a 17th Century farmhouse with tiny rooms, low ceilings and a giant fireplace. It is quite amazing. A few years ago they turned the farm into a land trust so it will stay farmland forever and their animals are protected.

After Dale and Ben’s place there is just about a quarter mile to the end of the road. There isn’t much else until you get to the very end where Grantville intersects Grant Station Road. Grant Station Road has quite a bit of traffic and the zoning is for small lots. It isn’t that nice.

On the top of the hill at the end of the road sits this log cabin. It was built a few years ago and the owners are still working on the yard and the garage. They have two giant dogs who come running and barking. It is a little unsettling, but they never leave their yarn.

To the right at the end of the road is a very cute little old house. The owners put a metal roof on it and they have a nice yard. It is quite sweet.

At this point there is nothing to do but turn and head for home. After passing Dale’s house, the big hill begins. The photo below does nothing to showcase the long, torturous ascent. Driving down the hill in the winter is also quite un-nerving. Somepeople drive miles out of their way to avoid driving down that hill in January. Retracing our steps along the road and through the woods gives us a chance to see everything from a different angle.

We walk past all of our favorite landmarks. The same trees, rocks, stone walls, houses, and other markers we have passed at least a hundred times over the past 29 years. Some things have changed. There are some new houses, but much has remained the same. We are almost the longest term people living on the road. Jim and Sandi best us by two years. Lots of times not a single car will pass us as we walk along. Those that do all wave hello.

And when we get to the end of our walk, we get to see the most beloved, prettiest house of all.

April 29, 2012

Bud, the Bird

A member of the Frost family who doesn’t get a lot of ink, but should, is Bud, the bird. Bud is a budgie, a parakeet. Bud lives in his cage which is hung in a corner of the living room.

For the first years of Bud’s life, he was allowed to fly free around the house. He loved to fly up to the top of the mirror in the dining room. There he would sit on a perch and admire the incredibly beautiful parakeet he saw in the mirror. He would stay up there for hours and on his perch was a clip to hold a spray of millet. Our cat, BuzzBomb, was mildly interested in Bud, but she never tried to eat him. They co-existed remarkably well. Sadly, we lost BuzzBomb to old age and Bud could fly with no feline worries whatsoever.

Then we got the cats.

At first all was well. The cats, Zena and Zoe, were kittens and they couldn’t really cause much trouble. But that tranquil period ended. That is why Bud’s cage is now hung from the ceiling in the corner of the living room. There is a carefully constructed open area around the cage. No furniture or launching pads are near Bud to keep the kitties from leaping and hanging on to Bud’s cage–as they were want to do. It must have been a terrifying experience for poor Bud.

We have had two near misses with Bud and the cats. Zoe once had Bud in her mouth and he suffered a puncture on his chest. It was horrifying for everyone, but Zoe. We were so worried about Bud, but he recovered. Bud is a very strong and brave bird.

Bud joined our family in August of 2000. We got him in Canaan, CT and for a long time Bud traveled back and forth to the country with us in a portable cage. He was a very adventurous Bud. Bud is a very friendly bird. He loves it when his “flock” sits in the living room with him. He sings a lot. He will sing when music is playing or just a cappella. When Jim plays the piano, Bud will often sing along. The best moments are when Dakota joins in and we have a trio with Jim on the piano, Bud singing his birdsong and Dakota chiming in with a doggier sound.

Bud is a pretty old bird. The average parakeet lifespan is 5-9 years. Some parakeets have lived as long as 20 years, but that is very unusual. Despite the rigors of living with two cats, Bud seems quite healthy and happy. Although many times we might seem almost to forget Bud perched in the corner of the living room, he is an integral part of our family. Our house would be much emptier without him. Here’s to a long, long life, Bud, the bird!

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October 30, 2011

Trick or Treat

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The weekend before Halloween. People are dressing up in costumes and planning for Halloween parties and fun. Zombies seem to be everywhere this year.

Mother Nature planned her own Trick or Treat.

With little warning, just the weatherman predicting a few early snowflakes, Mother Nature pulled her own trick dumping over 18 inches of snow on the ground Saturday.

Having not been to the country for two weeks, I was bound and determined to get there this weekend. Jeff (our friend and caretaker) had called to report that beavers had taken up residence in our pond. It must have been the heavy, heavy rains in late summer and fall. We haven’t had a problem with beavers since before Alex was born. I really wanted to get up to see the situation.

Jim, on the other hand, was not so motivated. He had piles of work to do and had just gone through an extremely exciting and yet challenging work week. He demurred about heading up Friday night and Saturday morning was no more inclined to go. So I packed up the cats and Dakota and headed up in the Subaru myself.

December 21, 2010

Christmas Greetings for 2010 from the Frost Family

Parris Island and our graduate

This has been a year of transformation and growth for everyone in the Frost family. There have been many positive developments, some disappointments and loss, but we have faced our challenges and joys together and we are a formidable force—with our own military detachment!

A catalyst for much of the change was the loss of Jenny’s job with Random House (reported last year) after an amazing 25 year run. We have all had to adjust in many ways to this significant change.  Time will tell, but 2010 should prove to be a watershed year for each of us and we hope and trust that the eventual outcome will be incredibly positive. Already much of the change has been positive, but change can be difficult and unsettling so it has not always been an easy year for any of us.

Returning to school after 30+ years has its challenges, but Jim has done spectacularly well in his first year of grad school. Ellie calls him the “curve buster.” He is motivated and his maturity stands him in good stead. More importantly, he is proving to be a passionate and creative teacher-in-training. He started the process thinking he wanted to teach high school English, but after a string of classroom observations and a course in Young Adult literature, he is leaning towards middle school. It has been a tough year with a heavy load of courses, but Jim’s perfectionism keeps him focused on each new assignment. With three courses each semester, including summer, it has been a push. In 2011 he will again have three courses spring and summer semesters and begin student teaching in the fall. With a little luck and smart hiring on the part of some school district, he will start teaching in January 2012. It is inspirational and exciting to watch him move to this new chapter in his life.

Jim and Alex the day Alex left for boot camp

Alex’s year has been one of dramatic change. Having not found himself in his college studies and in the wake of Jenny’s job loss, Alex decided to join the Marines. He has worked very hard this year and grown immeasurably. Our couch potato started working out at his Recruiting Office in January. He did very well on his entrance exams and took his Oath in early April. His ship date to boot camp (Parris Island) was to be in September, but if a slot opens and the recruiter thinks a recruit is ready, they can go sooner. Alex got the call June 12th. With two hours notice, we said our goodbyes and he headed to Parris Island for one of the most demanding 13 weeks of training in the world. It was tough and those first few weeks’ letters were heartbreaking, but Alex did incredibly well. We had the honor of seeing him graduate September 10th and it was a thrill for all of us. Our boy lost 25 lbs. and became a man with a maturity and bearing worthy of a Marine. After a brief leave, he did a month of Infantry training and is now stationed in Pensacola where he is getting Intel training. He has a security clearance and we don’t know exactly what he is doing, but he continues to excell and seems to truly enjoy his life as a Marine. We look forward to a 96 hour visit at New Year’s. He should be attached to a unit in the Spring. We don’t yet know where.

Family Day at Parris Island

Peter has also had a positively eventful year. Having attended the F.L. Chamberlain School for the past two years, he graduated in June. It was tremendously exciting to see Peter reach this rite of passage. For the first time in three years, Peter has been home with us to live and it has been unspeakably wonderful to have him with us. Peter has been thrilled to be with his cats, Zena and Zoe, and I think he likes us, too. Over the summer and fall, Peter has been taking classes at Westchester Community College. He is focused on math and physics. On his 20th birthday in August, Peter got his driver’s license—yet another major milestone. Peter’s next step may be Pace University in the fall or he may continue with WCC, but he is growing up fast and we are proud of his achievements.

Our graduate

This has been Ellie’s senior year of high school and that is without a doubt a year of big transition. It has been both great fun and unendurable misery to work through the college application process. Visiting the schools is fun.  The essays and general tension and anxiety are the pits. This summer Ellie spent three weeks hiking and camping with NOLS in Wyoming. This was a rigorous wilderness experience and she learned a lot. The Wind River Valley was spectacularly gorgeous, but the regimen was quite demanding. Nothing stops Ellie, so she did fine, but it was no picnic. She continues with cross country and basketball and has a full load of AP classes. She also got her license and is driving Jenny’s red Dakota truck which she has named Betsy Snow for reasons unfathomable to the rest of us. Her room is a mess and she displays many characteristics of the species adolescent girl, but we are aware that this is her last year before flying the nest.

Ellie

Without a doubt the saddest event this year was the loss of Jenny’s mom, Bobbie Isserman. As hard as it is to put into words what this means, it has to be a part of this news roundup. Bobbie was such a tremendously talented, intelligent, graceful and witty woman. She had such a positive mental attitude and lived her life fully. She is missed by so many and it is still hard to believe she is gone. Ferd is managing remarkably well and deserves tremendous respect for his attitude. He is busy and engaged and we are thrilled he will be joining us for Christmas.

Other big events this year include a delightful family reunion with Jim’s family in Livonia/Ann Arbor July 4th weekend and Ellie and Jenny’s summer long training for the Susan G. Komen 3-Day Breast Cancer (sixty mile) Walk October 8-10 for which they raised over $15,000.

Ellie and Jenny at Camp

The Matriarch and her children

With so much going on in the family, it was useful to have Jenny home more this year. After so many years of being at work, she was around to keep things running and provide support.  Watching the evening news and cooking dinner weeknights were both unaccustomed pleasures. Dakota was particularly pleased to have Jenny at home more. Not working has taken a lot of adjustment and thinking through the future has been a lengthy process. She is engaged in a multi-pronged full-frontal assault on the job market and there will hopefully be positive news in the future. It certainly won’t be for lack of trying.  One of the positives of this year has been having time to learn including social media. You can follow Jenny on Twitter @frostjenny, on Facebook, visit her web site www.jennyfrostassociates.com, read her blog www.twogirlswalkin.wordpress.com and catch her on LinkedIn.  Meeting lots of new people and networking has also been both challenging and enjoyable. Some knitting and beading were also done as well as the growing of a vegetable garden with abundant tomatoes, cucumbers, sunflowers and herbs.

The Summer Garden

 

Dakota

 

We all look forward to the developments of 2011. We wish you and your families all the best for this holiday season and the New Year.

April 25, 2010

Our Walking Assistant

Every team needs support. Someone behind the scenes who performs a significant function even if it involves just being really cuddly and furry. Dakota takes good care of team morale and works with both Ellie and Jenny on attitude and stamina.

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